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some people tend to appreciate someone when he/she is no longer with them..when he/she is still with us, we don't really feel that his/her existence is meaningful. maybe some of her/his actions will make us feel irritated..

okay let say we take cerita 'Nur Kasih' as an example..Adam sangat bencikan ayahnya since kecil sbb ayahnya terlalu strict and he feels like his father doesn't really love him..some people might think that his father did that because he loved his sons and he wanted both of his kids to be good person..but for Adam, he felt like his father doens't love him. so, he went away to Australia and planned not to go back to his hometown anymore..but then, when his father died, he was very sad and started to think the good sides between he and his father did...

so,mcm tulah..bila org tu ada depan mata kita, kita akan nmpk keburukan dia lebih byk berbanding kebaikan dia..mcm parents kita lah..diorg berleter sbb sygkn kita..nak bagi nasihat.. tapi, sesetgh org akan rasa rimas dan xsuka bila kena leter..sape suka kan kena leter?haha..tapi tula dia, love is something that cannot be seen by the eyes...so,pandai2 lah menilai yg mana baik yg mana buruk..cuba fikir the good things that they did for us instead of the bad things..setiap manusia ada kelemahan..mungkin org tu tak sedar apa yg dia buat tu membuatkan kita xsuka..try to appreciate someone that we have as we still have them..