Don't judge a book by its cover

10th Nov 2009..trip to Hastings and Castle Point..trip to hasting was smooth but to Casstle Point, agak penuh liku..sifat manusia biasa, bila dah dalam kesusahan, akan lebih mengingati Allah..so,this is a few story about our journey dan apa yg kami dapat sedikit sebanyak..

perjalanan penuh liku..at first, ada 2 options yg kami boleh pilih, either nak lalu jln yg kami nmpk jauh dlm map, or shortcut..tp tu dlm map lah..kami xde gps..hehe.tp, rupa2 nya penilaian kami salah sama sekali..jln yg kami pilih, which is the one that we assumed the best, shortcut was worst..dgn gravel road, so perjalan agak slow dan x smooth..xde kereta langsung yg lalu..ade la 1 2 four wheel drive yg lalu dgn lajunya..so agak challenging lah kan..tiba2 kami rasa sgt jauh lagi utk smpai ke destinasi. sampai satu tahap, level keyakinan kami agak kurang, so we decided to turn back our car to the beginning.cuba bygkn after few hours journey, kami nak patah balik through jln yg sama yg xde org except sheeps and cows..omg! tapi, itula org ckp, if we are doing something, kita kena yakin dgn keputusan kita tu..jgn dah sampai tgh jln baru nak menyesal dan berfikir utk patah balik..don't turn back if u feel u can find the light at the end of the road..cewah =P lagipun, kita ada Allah..so kita tawakal jela..kita mintak doa supaya diberikan petunjuk dan ditetapkan hati kita..nk dijadikan cerita, bila dah patah balik sikit dlm 3 minit, kami stop dan berfikir..sbnrnye jln yg kami lalu td tu dah betul.so just go ahead instead of turning back which will take some times..so kami patah balik semula.haha.kat sini, kita boleh tgk yg skill dan kepentingan membuat keputusan sgtlah penting..alhamdulillah, Allah tlg kami..dlm setengah jam kemudian kot, kami jumpa jln bertar semula..and happy faces dan tenang kembali di riak wajah kami..:) and the result after kesabaran dan tawakal kami was the very beautiful, amazing place yg sy asyik ckp nk stay over for a night..tapi xdilayan..haha.tmpt tu sgt tenang, dgn laut yg seluas luasnya menampakkan betapa hebatnya kuasa Allah s.w.t..subhanallah..

Here are some pictures as the prove..

otw back juga ada cabaran sikit..kami bertolak dah dekat senja since nk tgk sunset kat tmpt tu..it was very beautiful..cabaran time blk tu takut minyak abis tgh jln..kedai minyak kat situ dah ttp..next town xnmpk2 pn lg..so,agak cuak lah..kalau xsempat sampai,terpaksa lah bermlm dgn biri2 kt situ..huhu.

dlm kereta, satu topik dibincangkan..and it comes to my mind after that..sifat manusia biasa, tend to judge people by her/his appearance..physical..siapa kita utk judge org tu baik, org tu jahat, org tu xlayak itu, org tu layak ini..layak ke kita utk judge org lain bila diri kita sendiri pn sering melakukan kesalahan kan..nobody is perfect..kita bukan malaikat atau nabi yang maksum kan..semua manusia sama di sisi Allah..cuma yg bezanya iman..walaupun dari luaran, fizikal, kita tgk org tu nampak baik..tapi kita pasti ke yg hati dia, iman dia sempurna? org yg kita nmpk jahat, kita pasti ke yg hati dia x elok, iman dia xsempurna? siapa kita utk menilai? Allah yg pegang hati setiap manusia. Dia saja yg tahu kelemahan, kelebihan kita..siapa kita utk menilai? lagi pun, semua org ada kelebihan, kelemahan msg2..even di kalangan sahabat2 rasulullah s.a.w pn, x semua boleh jadi mcm saidina Umar yg kental, saidina Usman yg pemurah dgn harta and etc....so, mcm tula..back to the basic question..siapa kita utk menilai org lain kan..

cctv

one paper done!alhamdulillah..3 more to go!ganbatte!

when i looked at the ceiling in my room,i saw a smoke detector with the small blinking lights on it..then i was thinking how if it is a cctv!haha..just nonsense..sumtimes, we never realised that cctv Allah is always with us..sometimes we just forget about it..and sometimes we just ignore it!and He also has the examiners who always record our daily routines..what we did..what we think..what is in our mind...and they also give the scores!!IF we can always aware about that!!

With Him are the keys of the unseen, the treasures that none knoweth but He. He knoweth whatever there is on the earth and in the sea. Not a leaf doth fall but with His knowledge: there is not a grain in the darkness (or depths) of the earth, nor anything fresh or dry (green or withered), but is (inscribed) in a record clear (to those who can read). 
[Surah Al-An'am; 6:59]

wondering

final exam is around but i still can't concentrate in revising..i just can't imagine how i studied 11 subjects during the SPM time..now,i just have 4 papers to be done..*sigh* anyways, gud luck peeps.

"i really wanna go to Europe..further study perhaps??haha.so jealous with people studying in Europe..they can travel a lot!!"

any ways,enjoy this video..really love it!

Dilemma of a woman

Ginkgo biloba

ok,it's time for me to update my blog since my brain is now so active because of that ginkgo biloba i think..haha.it's now 1.42am.30 minutes i've tried to sleep but i can't even close my eyes for more than 5 minutes..my brain is working so active tonite..what i did was i just play few songs from my hp which is the last time i did that about nearly 8 months ago..quite long time..i always do it when i was in Malaysia 8-10 months ago..all those songs are my fav songs..each song reminds me the past..hehe

my third year final exam is just around the corner.in a week. i just can't believe that next year will be my final year as undergrad student in massey and also i'll be super duper senior here ..the thing is, here the seniority is not so obvious as in Malaysia..that's gud ey..no border among us..insyaAllah.hope that everything will go smoothly..this also means that encik Reza or encik Abdullah or Pn. Siti or whoever JPA officer who decided that few of us JPA students to come here, Massey University three years ago, already on our way to finish our duty here...

to all my frens who came along with me 3 years ago, who might be ended your study in few months time, all the best for you guys..and for all my frens who will be continuing our study until the end, and also all the juniors all the best for your coming exams..do our best as it is our responsibility to ourself, parents, and also all Malaysian residents who are paying their taxes.=D gud luck..

Condolence

7 Oct.2009- 5.30 am: Wake up calls from kema that tells about his lost. Pemergian nenek ke rahmatullah..semoga tenang di sana dan ditempatkan bersama org2 yang beriman.

**************al-Fatihah*******************

my deepest condolence to you and your family..be strong man..u still got one more paper for your final exam this Friday..have a safe journey back. 

Raya Lagi

As usual, raya will be celebrated for a month..this year is my 3rd year to celebrate Hari Raya with Malaysian in Palmy..very interesting and happening though..although bit tired and stressed organising the big event of the year..but the outcome is what we were looking at..congrats to all people who involved in organising the event on 4th Oct 2009..

(People behind the scene)

Poynting's theorem

ok just now, while studying the Poynting's theorem, a friend told me bout a new hot story..a little bit shocked and excited at first..mayb jealous..but not much..haha =P happy for my friend..but then, after being asked few questions from someone, the feeling has changed. have I made a good decision?

Phenomenon

wah,dah lama x update blog ni..nk kata bz xlah busy sgt kan..tp ntah.xde perasaan utk menulis..td tibe2 bukak,ape dah jd dgn blog ku..haha.xsedar pn yg rupa2 nya ade 2 playlist imeem kat sebelah tu..mcm under construction plak.sorry for any inconvenience..huhu..

Setiap musibah berlaku dengan izin Allah sebagaimana firman-Nya:

مَا أَصَابَ مِنْ مُصِيبَةٍ إِلاَّ بِإِذْنِ اللَّهِ 

Tidak ada musibah yang menimpa melainkan dengan izin Allah. [al-Taghabun 64:11]

lately, macam2 bencana alam berlaku everywhere around the globe..mula2 psl duststorm kat sydney..sampaikan ada bdk sydney sendiri ckp yg dia rasa mcm da end of the day..mcm nk kiamat da..the sky being reddish..if u could see any of the video which shows about the phenomenon, i bet u can feel how is the feeling if u were there..

after that, one by one disaster occurs. recently, tsunami in Samoa which death toll nears 150..subhanallah. 30 Sept. 2009, strong earthquake hit Padang, Sumatra which more than 500 have been confirmed died in the disaster. so, conclusion yang boleh dibuat dari semua ni adalah 'signs are everywhere..it is just about whether u are aware or not'...

Dan mereka tidak mahu memperhatikan, bahawa mereka dicuba (dengan pelbagai ujian) pada tiap-tiap tahun, sekali atau dua kali; kemudian mereka tidak juga bertaubat dan tidak pula mereka mahu beringat (serta insaf)? [al-Taubah 9:126]

Salam Perantauan

(credit to Kak Nad for taking this picture)

Alhamdulillah...bila dah 3rd year baru lah muka nak keluar dekat salam perantauan dlm paper..2 kali pulak tuh..tapi bukan me yang hantar..orang lain..haha.ok lah tu.at least ada jugak =P btw,bkn nak announce satu kampung psl muka kluar paper..haha.tp nak crite kisah masa kanak2 dulu..

since kecik,mayb skolah rendah kot..xberapa ingt sgt..stiap kali bulan puasa je, suka sgt selak surat kabar everyday just nak tgk gmbar2+ucapan kat segment salam perantauan tu..sejak dari tu jugak la, taruh harapan nak pegi oversea jugak..mana aci diorg sume boleh fly..aku pun nak jugak kan..tu la yg terdetik kat dalam hati kecilku masa tu..hehe.kebetulan masa tu pulak, byk gmbar student2 medic kat ireland..so, as kanak2 yg senang terinfluence dgn apa yg dia tgk, aku pn menaruh harapan utk buat medic kat ireland jugak..nk jd doctor..wah3..tapi masa tu,jauh lagi journey..year by year..bila dah masuk skolah menengah, salu cari senior2 soksek dalam gmbar2 tu..nak tgk la,berapa ramai bdk soksek kat oversea..hehe.bile masuk form 4, masuk aliran sains teknikal..aik,kata nak jadi doctor???huhu..tapi tulah, kita boleh merancang, tapi Allah yang menentukan semuanya..He knows everything that we don't know..maybe itu yang terbaik untukku..and because of that, aku xbuat medic sekarang..nak kata nyesal sebab xamik sains tulen pun tak jugak since aku suka blaja engineering jugak..tapi kadang2 tu teringin jugak nak jd doctor..xpe2..no turning back at this point..just doakan utk generasi akn datang :p 

so,basically itulah kisah di sebalik salam perantauan..and this year, harapanku ada la adik2 yang sama perangai mcm aku ni..being motivated by that salam perantauan section..hehe.pelik tapi benar..minat harus dipupuk sejak kecil..alhamdulillah sampai ke tahap ni..but this is a never ending journey..i still have aims and goals to be done!alhamdulillah...:)

Perempuan

As usual, pagi2 sabtu kami di sini..menonton nur kasih kat tv3.com.my...fav series tuh.xboleh missed.hehe.byk nasihat yg disampaikan.tapi pagi ni, byk kali hati terusik esp part yg melibatkan anak2 dan mak.."keredhaan Allah itu datangnya atas keredhaan kedua ibu bapa kita"..

perempuan senang masuk syurga tapi ramai dalam neraka..kadang2 bila fikir balik ayat ni,maksudnya perempuan ni kat ats pagar lah ye..kalau buat baik lebih sedikit, masuklah syurga..kalau dosa terlebih sedikit, masuklah neraka..itu pendapat sy la..tapi xtau la kebenarannya kan..wallahua'lam

“Apabila seorang isteri mengerjakan solat 5 waktu, mengerjakan puasa sebulan, memelihara kehormatannya (aurat) serta mentaati suaminya, nescaya dia akan masuk syurga”. (Riwayat Imam Bazzar melalui Anas r.a)

Daripada Anas, Nabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam bersabda yang bermaksud: “Apabila seorang perempuan mendirikan sembahyang lima waktu, berpuasa sebulan (Ramadhan), menjaga kehormatan dan taat kepada suami, dia akan disuruh memasuki syurga melalui mana-mana pintu yang dia sukai.” (Hadis Riwayat Ahmad)

Perempuan tidak perlu keluar berjihad atau berperang, cukup sekadar mengerjakan haji atau umrah bagi yang cukup syaratnya.

Antara dialog antara Aishah r.a dan Rasulullah S.A.W;

Aishah r.a. : “Ya Rasulullah, kita mengetahui bahawa jihad adalah sebaik-baik amalan. Oleh itu apakah kami kaum wanita tidak boleh ikut berjihad?”

Rasulullah S.A.W : “Bagi kamu semua (kaum wanita) jihad yang paling baik ialah mengerjakan haji dan mendapatkan haji mabrur.

Rasulullah SAW bersabda: ” Jihad orang yang tua, lemah dan wanita ialah menunaikan haji” (an-Nasa’i)” 

Pernah Rasulullah SAW bersabda yang bermaksud : “Jikalau sekiranya ada perintah dari Allah SWT untuk menyuruh manusia sujud kepada manusia nescaya aku suruh isteri sujud kepada suaminya.”

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okay, so nampak senang je kan perempuan nak masuk syurga..tapi bukan senang nk bagi spenuh ketaatan kpd suami bila dah berkahwin (status ym seorang nakibah uni auckland yg sudah berumahtangga).mayb sebab tu perempuan juga lebih ramai di neraka..

Dari Abdullah bin Umar r.a katanya:

Rasulullah s.a.w telah bersabda: “Wahai kaum wanita! Bersedekahlah kamu dan perbanyakkanlah istighfar iaitu memohon ampun. Kerana aku melihat kaum wanitalah yang lebih ramai menjadi penghuni Neraka.”

Seorang wanita yang cukup pintar di antara mereka bertanya: “Wahai Rasulullah, kenapa kami kaum wanita yang lebih ramai menjadi penghuni Neraka?”

Rasulullah s.a.w bersabda: “Kamu banyak mengutuk dan mengingkari suami. Aku tidak melihat mereka yang kekurangan akal dan agama yang lebih menguasai pemilik akal, daripada golongan kamu. Maksud kekurangan akal ialah penyaksian dua orang wanita sama dengan penyaksian seorang lelaki. Inilah yang dikatakan kekurangan akal. Begitu juga wanita tidak mendirikan sembahyang pada malam-malam yang dilaluinya kemudian berbuka pada bulan Ramadhan kerana haid. Maka inilah yang dikatakan kekurangan agama”

wallahua'lam

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p/s: nk start simpan duit byk2..stop shopping bnda2 yg x faedah.=P

wake me up

only 3 days left..after this, back to normal..what?classes resume..two weeks break seems too long especially during this fasting month. I feel like I don't want to go to school until celebrating Hari Raya..a month break perhaps?melampau..haha.

perasaan di pagi Jumaat...

1. it's hard to accept when people are criticing of what you have done..that's normal. people especially at this age, tend to fight back..but sometimes, what people are criticing is what is true..it is from their point of view..

2. but, in a relationship, it shud have give and take..if A criticize B, B accept..it shud be the same when B criticize A..if B can easily accept what A wanted, A shud do the same..this is called FAIR...

3. fasting doesn't mean just not to eat and drink during day time..it does also teach people to lower their sight, not to talk nonsense, do good things and be patient..

4. craving terubuk sumbat bakar for berbuka..kat mana boleh dapatkan ikan terubuk ea?

5. time which is given is not enough compared to the task given..

6. speed up revising. time is running out!

daa~

Sometimes

Can I say that

sometimes, assets can bring people to nowhere.

sometimes, they are just burden.

sometimes, they just make people lost in this temporary world. 

sometimes, they just bring people into problems.

sometimes, they just make people to forget who is the creator.

so.....

don't allow them to control our life.

don't feel so proud of having them.

don't make them as priority as other important things.

because they are just temporary..

"sesungguhnya hartamu dan anak-anakmu hanyalah cubaan bagimu, dan di sisi Allah pahala yang besar [64:15]"

p/s: the smaller you are, the harder to take care of you..

where are you hiding from me?

I couldn't find you anywhere...

It's never too late

It's never too late..selalu kan dgr word ni..well, it's never too late if we realized sumting, and then we move on to the next step to improve it..

ok,for this entry, nk tulis psl satu citer ni.."cinta sempurna" kat astro oasis sempena bln Ramadhan ni..story line yg bagus..boleh buka minda masyarakat Malaysia esp org Islam sendiri yg boleh dikatakan sedikit sebanyak dah di westernized and da kalah dgn perang saraf kaum musyrikin..hurm..

"rosak ibadah, rosak akhlak, rosak akidah..mereka seolah-olah dirasuk jin barat"...teringat lagi sebelum fly ke nz, ramai saudara mara yg nasihat mcm2 lah..semua risau bila kita nak keluar negara, utk belajar..takut rosak akidah, takut terpengaruh dgn budaya barat..well, masa tu instinct dpt rase, xde pape akn berubah..dgn izin Allah, still mcm dulu, xbyk berubah, and mayb lebih byk pengetahuan ttg ilmu agama, alhamdulillah..and at the same time, dpt bukak mata and compare mslh2 Islam di Malaysia dan worldwide..insyaAllah..

"bukan salah sistem, tapi salah mind setting masyarakat itself"..itu sy setuju sgt2..for example, kat Malaysia, budak2 xboleh byk bertanya even kat their parents or teachers..hurm.kalau byk bertanya, dikatakan biadab la, kurang ajar..kalau mcm tu,mcm mana minda nak berkembang??kalau kurang faham,mesti lah kena bertanya kan..tulah silapnya dari awl..sbb tu, apa yg sy dapat lihat bila dtg sini, student malaysia kurang, kurang ok,bkn xde..kurang bertanya dlm klas if compared to mat saleh..y?sbb mmg da terdidik mcm tu dari kecik..everything disuap..

"kenapa org Islam xboleh minum arak?bela anjing?anjing kan cute?Islam ni seolah2 kolot".."kat Uk tu,bersepah2 org mabuk,xde pulak religious authority dtg nk serbu club mlm"..ni lah mslhnye bila ilmu agama still kurang or xde, tiba2 membesar dlm community yg bkn Islam..akidah boleh terpesong..even membesar kat Malaysia sniri, negara yg kononnya majoriti Islam, tapi disebaliknya boleh dikatakn kurang bersistemkan Islam itu sendiri..sedih jugak bila tgk gmba2 rakan2, juniors, seniors, kat club mlm, ada botol2 arak atas meja..dedah sana, dedah sini..sy rse lg over dari omputih kat nz ni..tu org Islam tuh..bila ada pihak yg tegur, keluarlah statement mcm2..dulu2, kat msia, chinese je yg pakai skirt pendek atas lutut, skng ni, org melayu da sama naik..lg over pn byk..kenapa ek?salah siapa ek?

so,back to basic lah..ilmu..ilmu...dan ilmu..:)

even diri sendiri pon still byk kekurangan..but we can try to improve ourself right..it's never too late mate.:)

"...Mereka tidak henti-hentinya memerangi kamu sampai mereka (dapat) mengembalikan kamu dari agamamu (kepada kekafiran), seandainya mereka sanggup..."[2:217]

Some thoughts on Ramadhan

First of all, nk ucapkan selamat menyambut bulan Ramadhan :) selamat menjalani ibadah puasa..semoga Ramadhan kali ini lebih bermakna..selalu kan org wish mcm tu..semoga Ramadhan kali ini lebih bermakna..bermakna dari segi apa ye?as for me, bermakna tu kalau kita boleh improve kan diri kita bermula dari bln Ramadhan tu,dan stay smpai the next Ramadhan..kirenye,utk setahun la kan..bkn setakat bln ramadhan je buat baik, lpas raya, jd mcm hantu balik..buat maksiat..sbb ape?sbb da bkn bln ramadhan kn.so,mcm tulah sesetgh org akn buat..tapi lg worst kalau dlm bln ramadhan tu pn still lakukan maksiat..huhu.mksdnye, ramadhan yg baru dilalui tu xbermakna la kan..sbb xdpt didik diri utk tempoh setahun, bkn setakat sebulan bln puasa tu je..hurm,ssh jugak tu kn...tp,itulah yg dinamakan istiqamah..bkn hot hot chicken shit! =P

lgpun,bln ramadhan ni kn bulan keampunan, bln keredhaan..so, bg yg dah byk lakukan maksiat, dosa tu, masa ni lah nak bentuk diri semula..bertaubat lah..buang kan segala sifat2 jahiliah dlm diri..astaghfirullah..personally, sy akui yg ramadhan selama 22 tahun sy bernafas ni kurang mendidik jiwa sy..sbb nye,mcm yg di atas lah..22 tahun, bkn lah waktu yg singkat kan..ramai je kawan2, saudara yg meninggal sebelum umo 22 tahun..byk org pk masa ni lah waktu utk enjoy life..bila da tua, da berkeluarga, barulah insaf..mcm org kafir pulak..mcm org putih..diorg punye target mcm tulah..life starts at 40..tapi mcm mana kalau dah ditakdirkan kita mati sblm insaf tu kn..nauzubillah..

that's all..anyway, selamat berpuasa rakan2 walaupun da masuk hari ke 5 kite berpuasa hari ni..rajin2 lah bangun solat mlm sebelum sahur tu ye..sng je.insyaAllah :)

p/s teringin nak balik puasa dgn family kat malaysia..rindu~~~=P

Suratan atau kebetulan?

Sesuatu yang tak disangka
Seringkali mendatangi kita
Itukah suratan dalam kehidupan
Atau hanya satu kebetulan

Kita asyik membicarakan
Persoalan hidup dan pilihan
Sedang kejujuran semakin berkurang
Masih tiada bertemu jawapan

Walau kita dihadapkan
Dengan berbagai pilihan
Mengapa sering terjadi
Pilihan tak menepati

Hingga amat menakutkan
Menghadapi masa depan
Seolah telah terhapus
Sebuah kehidupan yang kudus

Pertemuan sekali ini
Bagi diriku amat bererti
Tetapi ku bimbang untuk menyatakan
Bimbangkan berulang kesilapan

p/s: xde motif sgt pn entry ni..just let e media player shuffle..then,bile smpai lagu ni..tiba2 terfikir psl ni..suratan atau kebetulan semua ini?

Size doesn't matter

Rasenye today first time tgk hockey match selain mase kat sekolah menengah dulu..but today, the different is our Malaysian team bermain di luar negara..so, mcm special sikit la kan..lagi pulak di Palmy ni sendiri..so,mesti la bersemangat nk support kn..even though awl2 mls nk pegi since kena study for midterm test next wed..tapi,cmne ntah tibe2 tukar decision utk pegi jugak..sbb ape ntah la..haha.mayb ade satu sbb tu kot..since ade org ckp ade klon mr q di situ..haha.so,tringin la jugak nk tgk kn..btul ke x ape yg si a** ckpkn tu..haha.=P

seawal jam 1pm da betolak..ingt nk pegi kejap je..tgk muka2 players tu..lpas tu nk g esplanade la konon..nk bkelah smbil stdy..tp since da kena byar duit $12 kat entrance tu,xkn la tibe2 nk kuar pulak kn..xke rugi namanya..so,stay la smpai abis match..panas terik sungguh hari ni..ddk pulak kat stand yg menghadap cik matahari..xbwk sunglasses pulak..hadoi..terpaksa la ttp dgn bendera malaysia yg ku kasihi..=P ok,as usual,match dimulakan dgn national anthem..smgt org malaysia nyanyi..org nz,senyap je..ish3..xde smgt kenegaraan sungguh diorg..

then,match dimulakan..ok,1st impression kitorg.."mak ai,kecik je players msia ni..yg nz pulak besar2,tggi,tegap..." haha..tapi,jgn pandang rendah org yg kecik2 nih..ligat sungguh..pndai control strategy..1st half tu sengit jugak lah..msia byk serang..tp,xleh goal jgak..nz score 1-0..second half, mayb da penat kot..pastu plak rmai yg injured since diorg da lawan kat aussie before dtg cni..so,xpe la..nz score lg...dan lg...so,3-0...tp xpe,kitorg xde kecewa sgt..biase la tu..lawan dgn tuan rumah..menang kalah xpenting..yg penting semangat juang yg tggi..dan juga semgt para penyokong..dari umo 1 tahun hingga lah 40s..haa.hebat tuh..congrats msian team..keep it up!slasa ni ade lg match..so,leh kalahkn lg..

with malaysian team

one of the Black Stick players (tinggi kan)

bile da exposed lame2 dgn matahari yg panas terik, akibatnya sakit kepala di mlm hari..begitulah sy..sejak dtg nz ni, tula mslh..xleh tahan dgn matahari..sunburn apa tah lagi kn..ok lah,need to study..daa

Our ageing world

ok dah ingt balik apa topik yg sy nak share last time..when reading The Dominion Post few days ago..i was interested to this topic..the title is "Our ageing world"..according to this newspaper ,people aged 65 and over will soon outnumber children under five for the first time in history..globally, this "oldest old" population is projected to increase 233% between 2008 and 2040..what do u say about this?why is that so? the reason that they have predicted was the increase is primarily the result of high fertility levels after World War II and secondarily, but increasingly, the result of reduced death rates at older ages..yeah, that is right I think..as we can see in Malaysia itself, older people such as our grand grand parents or aunts are more energetic eventhough they are already 70s or 80s..for example, I still have my grandmother who is still energetic eventhough she is nearly 90 years old..she is older than Tun Mahathir I guess..but they still can perform so many things..they are very hardworking..they don't like to waste their time by doing nothing..mayb that is because the difference in lifestyle and environment now and before..

secondly, high fertility levels..mayb that's also true..people before the world war, our late grandparents, they do get married before age 20..if compared to now, even people age 40 still haven't got married. they usually busy with their job..some people think that getting married means that they will have a high responsibilty..well, that's the reason why we are here, in this world. to take the responsibily..and then, we can also compare the number of children that each family has.. nowadays, the average children in each family basically just 2 or 3..and maximum we can see is 4 i guess..but before the world war II, each family basically has at least 8 children..some family has more than 15 children...is that because of high fertility or they choose to have them? if u get married at the earlier age, the chances of getting more children is high..well that is my opinion..

Maksud firman Allah swt: “Dan kahwinlah orang-orang bujang diantara kamu dan orang-orang yang layak berkahwin dari hamba yang lelaki dan perempuan.Jika mereka miskin,Allah swt akan memberikan kemampuan kepada mereka dengan kurniaNya.Dan Allah Maha Luas pemberiannya lagi Maha Mengetahui”.[24:32]

Wahai diri

sempat nk update blog before tido ni..takut esok bangun,da lupa point hari ni..mcm last time..i think i had sumting to write about..the idea came before i closed my eyes..a good entry i think..but then, end up i forgot what i want to write about the next day..xpe la..mayb die x ditakdirkan utk dikongsi bersama..haha.

ok,idea before tido mlm ni..kita kena ubah diri sendiri betul2 sebelum try ubah diri org lain..if kita nak suruh seseorang buat kebaikan, kita kenalah tunjuk dekat orang tu yang apa yang kita ajak dia buat tu, kita pun buat..bkn cakap2 kosong..bukan cakap xserupa bikin..
apa yang penting??

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diri sendiri dulu kena betul
tunjuk contoh yg baik
istiqamah

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that's all for today..gud nite :D

ok,ni point after bangun tido..haha.boleh pulak mcm tu ye..:D
erm, perkataan respect.
ada org ckp,
aku respect org tu, and aku xrespect sgt yg sorg lg tu..
kenapa kita pilih utk respect sumone tu??
mungkin sbb die byk ilmu..
mungkin sbb peribadi dia..
ye la, org berilmu dan peribadi baik,konfem la org akn respect kn..
nk compare dgn yg lg sorg ni, berilmu jugak la..
cuma mayb die xtunjuk kn sifat dia.kalau ada la.
kalau org yg kita respect bg nasihat or ceramah, konfem kita amik point dia kn..
so mcm tu lah kehidupan..
"Knowledge is like a fruit. When a fruit grows on a branch of a tree, its weight causes that branch to bend and bow. Similarly, when knowledge increases in a person, it causes him to become humble and not Mutakabbir (proud and boastful)"

tak kenal maka tak cinta

lain orang, lain lah perangai masing2..kita tak boleh nak expect orang lain jadi apa yang kita nak. tapi, kalau dah orang tu mempunyai akhlak yg kurang baik spt suka menunjuk2, rasa rimas pun ada kan..as for me, saya tak suka org yg suka show off..tapi sumtimes tu, kita tak tahu orang tu berniat utk menunjuk2 or dia dah mmg mcm tu kan..itu sifat dia.akhlak dia..ha, term akhlak ni, baru tau maksud die btul2 time usrah baru2 ni..tp seingat sy,masa usrah before this pn dah bincang psl akhlak ni..akhlak ni, mcm sifat semulajadi manusia..if akhlak die suka menunjuk2, die akan buat perkara tu tanpa berfikir panjang..contohnya spt "eh aku nk ckp mcm tu ke tak eh, nanti orang menyampah pulak kan. orang kata aku nk menunjuk2 pulak"..haa, if die tak pk mcm tu, trus die buat benda tu, means,tu akhlak die.if akhlak die suke sembahyang sunat after solat fardhu, die tak akan fikir, "eh nak solat sunat ke tak ek"..so,mcm tula..tapi, akhlak ni boley lagi nk dipupuk kan..cuba la slow2..

ok,back to the story..show off. kadang2 org tu tak berniat utk show off pn. sy rasa sy pun ada jugak buat benda mcm tu..sumtimes niat kita nak melawak..tapi,org lain interpret yang kita ni nak berlagak la konon..sbb tula, kita kena kenal orang tu mcm mana kan..kalau kita nak kawan dgn org tu, kita kena la kenal dia betul2..buat sesi ta'ruf..sesi ta'ruf ni takkan stop selagi kita bersama org tu..even husband and wife pn kadang2 still x faham partner masing2 walaupun dah lama berumahtangga kan..kalau tak,xde la gaduh2, cerai berai kan..

tapi itu lah..yang sy nak tegaskan di sini, sy xsuka orang berlagak. dan seolah2 poyo..dan sy cuba utk tdk mengeluarkan perkataan yg seolah2 kita ni hebat sgt..ada itu, ada ini..even xberniat, tapi, manusia biasa lah..suka misinterpret.. so,susah lah kan..satu cara je, kurangkan bercakap perkara2 yg tidak berfaedah...dan satu lagi, cuba kenal org sekeliling kita..apa sifat dia, perangai dia so that kita tak salah faham maksud yang cuba disampaikan di situ..sekian

And the weekend is over..

Tomorrow is the 3rd week of the semester, and I feel like my soul is still not ready yet..I haven't done any revision so far and I should start it by tonight otherwise I will be left at the back..ok.

The weekend is over again and again..time goes so fast until I feel I couldn't chase it. I have only got 24 hours per day and not beyond that..so, I need to fill it up by something that is valuable.

throughout this week, i have been through so many things but I don't feel to share them all.
People come and people go. today, 26th July is the day that kak hani leaving Palmy and us for good. Although she might come back in Nov but it is still be different because she is no longer being a student here. There will be no more hanging out with her, playing with her, and etc...if u are reading this, I wish u all the best in what ever u do, be a gud teacher in the future and our friendship will lasting forever..insyaAllah.:)

this weekend also, I missed the flight deal from MAS where I couldn't grab it for now since I haven't decided and applied for any summer job in here..which mean, I missed the opportunity to buy a return ticket of only $900 which is very2 cheap..:( it's okay..rezeki tak ke mana..

and this week also, I heard someone got so many problems that he could't stand for it..for u, just be patient..there are all ujian from God to us..take it easy and u'll be fine.and gud luck for ur midterm exams also..all the best :)

Magnetic theory

today during the instrumentation class, my lecturer said sumting about the strong relationship between the north and south pole. " the north and south pole of a magnet is the strongest couple among all relationship..they cannot be separated even when you apply the strongest force to break them apart..they will still want to be closed together"..hehe..how lovely.that have made me day dreaming in the class. but don't worry, kejap je berangan.lpas tu focus balik la okay =P anyway, i enjoy learning about electromagnetic things..quite interesting so far, but who knows it will be hard throughout the semester..whatever..we have to enjoy in what ever we are doing okay..

and now, weekend is coming! and we've already got a plan to go for a ski trip to mt ruapehu this sunday...it's been two years i went for a ski and now i am very keen to try that again..and also this trip will be our last moment together with some good friends as this is their final semester in here..hopefully everything will goes smoothly and we'll enjoy the moment!

Antara MJ dan Dr Marwa al Sherbini

Anda tahu kisah Michael Jackson? walaupun sy sedikit terlewat tahu psl kematian MJ, but still, sy dapat tahu psl tu dari kawan2 dan juga it was still in the news beberapa hari kemudian..beberapa hari kemudian, sy dapat email yg telah diforwardkan kpd sy..terkejut jugak..tak tahu pun psl satu cerita yg menyayat hati yet membuatkan sy geram, sedih..mls nk type panjang2..so sy just copy and paste jela ek..nk kongsi cite utk sape2 yg blom tau psl cite hamba Allah ni.."tayangan pemakaman the King of Pop, Michael Jackson yang begitu gegap gempita di tv kita sepanjang hari kemarin. Beberapa stesyen tv menayangkan tayangan eksklusif langsung dari AS acara penghormatan terakhir bagi si Raja Muzik Pop sampai pagi ! Dan entah berapa juta mata masyarakat dunia yang rela menahan mata demi menyaksikan acara itu.

Saya sedih, bukan karena kematian MJ yang dipuja jutaan orang di dunia. Tapi saya sedih, karena pada saat yang sama, berlangsung pemakaman seorang muslimah yang Insya Allah menjadi seorang syahidah karena mempertahankan jilbabnya. Marwa Al-Sharbini, seorang ibu satu anak yang sedang mengandung tiga bulan, wafat akibat ditikam sebanyak 18 kali oleh seorang pemuda Jerman keturunan Rusia yang anti-Islam dan anti-Muslim. Tapi berita ini, sama sekali tidak saya temukan di televisi-televisi Indonesia, negara yang mayoritas penduduknya Muslim, bahkan mungkin, tak banyak dari kita yang tahu akan peristiwa yang menimpa Marwa.




Ribuan orang di Mesir yang mengantar jenazah Marwa ke tempat peristirahatannya yang terakhir, memang tidak sebanyak orang yang menangisi kepergian Michael Jackson. Marwa hanya seorang ibu dan bukan superstar seperti MJ. Tapi kepergian Marwa adalah lambang jihad seorang muslim. Marwa mempertahankan harga dirinya sebagai seorang Muslimah yang mematuhi ajaran agamanya meski untuk itu ia kehilangan nyawanya.

Marwa ditikam di ruang sidang kota Dresden, Jerman saat akan memberikan kesaksian atas kesnya. Ia mengadukan sorang pemuda Jerman bernama Alex W yang kerap menyebutnya “teroris” hanya karena ia mengenakan jilbab. Dalam suatu kesempatan, pemuda itu bahkan pernah menyerang Marwa dan berusaha melepas jilbab Muslimah asal Mesir itu. Di persidangan itulah, Alex kembali menyerang Marwa, kali ini ia menikam Marwa
berkali-kali (18kali menurut satu sumber). Suami Marwa yang berusaha melindungi isterinya, malah terkena tembakan kaparat keamanan pengadilan yang berdalih tak sengaja menembak suami Marwa yang kini dalam kondisi kritikal di rumah sakit Dresden.

Peristiwa ini sepi dari pemberitaan di media massa Jerman dan mungkin dari pemberitaan media massa asing dunia karena yang menjadi korban adalah seorang muslimah yang dibunuh oleh orang Barat yang anti-Islam dan anti-Muslim. Situasinya mungkin akan berbeda jika yang menjadi korban adalah satu orang Jerman atau orang Barat yang dibunuh oleh seorang ektrimis Islam. Beritanya dipastikan akan gempar dan mendunia.

Itulah sebabnya, mengapa di tv-tv kita kemarin cuma dijejali dengan pemberitaan seputar pemakaman Michael Jackson yang mengharu biru itu. Tak ada berita pemakaman syahidah Marwa Al-Sharbini yang mendapat sebutan “Pahlwan Jilbab”. Tak ada protes dunia Islam atas kematiannya. Tak ada tangis kaum muslimin dunia untuknya. Tapi tak mengapa Marwa … karena engkau akan mendapatkan tempat yang paling mulia di sisiNya. Seiring doa dari orang-orang yang mencintaimu. Selamat jalan saudariku, maafkan kami jika kurang peduli …

p/s: if nak tahu lebih lanjut or nk tgk video2 psl ni,cuba lah search nama Marwa dlm utube..u'll find some :)

sick of sleeping

welcome back..this is the first post after the bersatu game finished..has been three days for me to recover from fever and cough..and now, i'm sick of sleeping..sick people need to have lots of rest,sleep etc..so do I..but now, at this moment, i feel like i'm sick because of much sleeping..actually, this morning my level of health is better than before.however, because of tonight, i feel sick again..when i woke up, i feel hopeless, sad, gloomy, lonely..i dunno why.i just called home before i went to sleep..i didn't planned to sleep just now, but because of waiting,i fell asleep..

tomorrow, the lectures will resume..the semester two will begin..the life as a student will continue..am i ready?not mentally i guess..with this condition..hurm..what to do..have to go with the flow..i can't create my own rule..i can't decide whether to go or not to the class..it is all will affect my study..only one and a half year to go to finish my degree here..alhamdulillah..hope that everything will be smooth and fine..and i also hope that this semester i will perform better than before..amin..

Bersatu update

tomorrow is the last day for Bersatu Games 2009 in Palmy.. so far, everything goes very well..that's what i can see and from others too.. so far, MUMSA contingent did very well.congrats!!!sepak takraw won gold and silver, badminton won a gold and few silvers too, netball won silver, volleyball won silver, handball won gold, soccer not sure yet either bronze or not..and we are waiting for more medals from athletics tomorrow..the weather was fine during these three days..alhamdulillah..:) this is the first time our netball team win a medal..we were very happy and at the same time quite disappointed since we lost just few goals with WMSO..that's why air mata kekecewaan mengalir di pipi ku during the first half of the match..so frustated since I can't perform very well..well, that's what I am..thank you..:)

MUMSA netball team with manager and few supporters


After the match with WMSO

Hero

i am now stuck at the state that i,me,myself have created..
there is no turning back for me i guess..
unless there are some miracles that He will show to me later on..
just be patient and be a gud girl..
i'm afraid if the decision that has been made will affect my future..
ya Allah, aku berlindung kepadaMu dari rasa sedih dan gelisah..
dan aku berlindung padaMu dari sikap pengecut dan bakhil..
dan aku berlindung padaMu dari cengkaman hutang dan penindasan orang..

Talk is silver, silence is gold

Talk is silver, silence is gold..i like this phrase..well, silence is the best policy..why?ok,let's move on..

It is interesting to note how Silent and Listen have same letters but are arranged differently.I've found it in a blog that i've just read..quite nice though

We humans have a tendency to talk more and listen less..why is that? much of it is because we have forgotten the art of waiting and allowing ourselves to grow silent within. But not for a tree..

when we are silent and waiting, something beautiful inside us keeps on growing and it is this stillness and silence that gives birth to creativity. one more thing, the more we keep silent, the less heart that can be hurt.

There are times when silence becomes the most potential way of communication and is more effective than words. We all have at least one memory when we have faced that eloquent silence of our elders such as parents or teachers when we have felt a cold fear at the bristling silence of their fury. When their silence had scared us more than angry words. When just one quiet look had had us behaving better than a harsh reprimand or scolding.

Lovers all over the world are said to communicate with silence. Understand each other’s silence. The famous telepathy between two people who have strong feelings for each other happens in a compelling silence.

In a business world the salesmen are taught the art of persuasive silence. After he has urged the potential client to buy some product and the customer is contemplating quietly over what the salesman has described, the well trained salesman remains absolutely silent during this important hiatus. Often he gains his sale by using this important tool.

Undeniably, silence needs a special kind of power and authority of mind and saying it with silence needs a certain ‘command of language’. To say nothing is often more difficult than expressing the anger, love and betrayal with words.

As these beautiful lyrics of the song ‘Sounds of silence’ by Simon and Garfunkel say:

“People talking without speaking,
People hearing without listening,
People writing songs that voices never share
And no one dared
Disturb the sound of silence.

Hear my words that I might teach you;
Take my arms that I might reach you.
But my words like silent raindrops fell,
And echoed
In the wells of silence.”

s.a.b.a.r

tetibe rase nk tulis entry pasal benda nih..haha.
da tak tau sgt nk tulis ape kn..
so entry kali ni bak kata heliza dlm syurga cinta..
"s.a.b.a.r"...
ckp mmg mudah kan..tapi diri sendiri yg tahu keupayaan masing2..
bile sebut sabar, people can interpret so many things..
sabar sbb nak marah?sabar sbb nak dapatkn sesuatu?
sabar menghadapi ujian?
macam2 lah..so,sabarlah wahai hati..
sesungguhnya sabar itu indah..org yang sabar disayangi Allah..
"maka bersabarlah kamu dengan sabar yang baik [70:5]"..
"Jadikanlah sabar dan shalat sebagai penolongmu. Dan sesungguhnya yang demikian itu sungguh berat, kecuali bagi orang-orang yang khusyu' [2:45]"..

Sabar
-Alarm Me-

Jangan jadi orang tidak sabar
Terus bersabar tetapkan bersabar
Sabar itu sebahgian iman
Jadikan ia satu amalan

Awan tidak sentiasa mendung
Langit yang cerah pasti akan datang
Ombak tidak sentiasa menggulung
Menghempas bahtera di laut
Kadangkala tenang
Mendamaikan hati yg rawan

Begitulah satu gambaran
Orang yang diduga dalam kehidupan
Pastinya kan tiba kemudahan
Ganjaran iman di sisi tuhan

Awan tidak sentiasa mendung
Langit yang cerah pasti akan datang
Ombak tidak sentiasa menggulung
Menghempas bahtera di laut
Kadangkala tenang
Mendamaikan hati yg rawan

Kata pujangga orang yg bersabar umpama sang pahlawan
Gagah berani ia digeruni berkorban rela mati

Jangan jadi orang tidak sabar
Terus bersabar tetapkan bersabar
Sabar itu sebahgian iman
Jadikan ia satu amalan

Gloomy

from yesterday, the whole day is wet..the rain doesn't stop pouring to the earth..the wind doesn't stop blowing..the same thing goes to my heart..it doesn't stop beating..=P mmg la kan..klu x,da tak dapat tulis entry ni da..alhamdulillah..di panjangkan umur dan di dalam iman smpai ke hari ni..insyaAllah..

hurm..when talking about weather, it is always changing..like our mood. sumtimes the weather does affect the mood..ok my mood this morning isn't quite good.. i dunno why..but i feel gloomy..in this gloomy weather..i can hear clearly the strong wind, sometimes the rain..and now, the sound of a kitty..what??ada penduduk baru pulak ke?haha..seronok la kak sharina..boley curik2 bela kucing tuh..=P

p/s: happy birthday fifey..sib baik xbuat prank masa hg tgh tido..=P

muka fifey yang baru bgun tido =P

dalam dk tgh tulis post ni, tibe2 kitty yg dimaksudkn da smpai kat dlm umah da..si kitty yg tgh shivering kat bwh tu, dlm ujan lebat, angin kuat, telah diselamatkn oleh doktor vet kite..dr sharina..

muka happy k.sharina dapat peluk si kitty :D

si kitty yang kehausan + kelaparan agaknya setelah ditinggalkan ibunya
comel giler..gemok!

Menghargai

some people tend to appreciate someone when he/she is no longer with them..when he/she is still with us, we don't really feel that his/her existence is meaningful. maybe some of her/his actions will make us feel irritated..

okay let say we take cerita 'Nur Kasih' as an example..Adam sangat bencikan ayahnya since kecil sbb ayahnya terlalu strict and he feels like his father doesn't really love him..some people might think that his father did that because he loved his sons and he wanted both of his kids to be good person..but for Adam, he felt like his father doens't love him. so, he went away to Australia and planned not to go back to his hometown anymore..but then, when his father died, he was very sad and started to think the good sides between he and his father did...

so,mcm tulah..bila org tu ada depan mata kita, kita akan nmpk keburukan dia lebih byk berbanding kebaikan dia..mcm parents kita lah..diorg berleter sbb sygkn kita..nak bagi nasihat.. tapi, sesetgh org akan rasa rimas dan xsuka bila kena leter..sape suka kan kena leter?haha..tapi tula dia, love is something that cannot be seen by the eyes...so,pandai2 lah menilai yg mana baik yg mana buruk..cuba fikir the good things that they did for us instead of the bad things..setiap manusia ada kelemahan..mungkin org tu tak sedar apa yg dia buat tu membuatkan kita xsuka..try to appreciate someone that we have as we still have them..

Decision time

whoa, it is very hard for me to decide something in a short time..going back or not during the 3 months summer break..have to consider lot of things..where to do my intern?nz or mas?still haven't finalized yet..

if x balik, what are the complications..will I missing home n the people in malaysia or not..=P or in other words, will they missing me?haha..perasan..=P have to decide before the 27th, 2 days to go!!why? because MAS got sales now..return ticket form Auckland to Malaysia is much cheaper now..nzd1129 + 100..something like that la..but still much cheaper than before..I can save almost $500..wahhh..can do many things with that amount..travelling..shopping...n bla3..=P idea2..kemari lah..=D

Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye

Nabi Muhammad s.a.w bersabda: “Sesungguhnya di dalam diri manusia ada seketul daging apabila ia baik akan baiklah seluruh jasad. Sebaliknya apabila ia buruk akan buruklah seluruh jasad. Daging itu ialah hati.” (Riwayat Bukhari-Muslim)

apa itu hati? a small organ in our body that controls our brain..it needs to be polished so that it won't be dirty or infected by viruses..ok..if someone ask u what is invisible to the eyes, but can be seen by the heart?what would be your answer? as for me, it is very subjective..for example,desire..if we dont really know some people, we can't see what are their desires and wishes unless they've said it..ok,for example..father's day is just over..as for our family, we dont really celebrate any special occasion such as birthday, mother's day,father's day n etc..so, I assume that it doesn't matter if I make a wish or not..but then, last night when I called my parents, the assumption get change..I didn't know that actually my dad was waiting for me to wish him happy father's day..I'd only realized that when my mom asked me.. hve u wished ur dad?and she explained to me that the day before, when they were watching tv, my father said..why our kids didn't wish me yet but during mother's day, everyone wishes u..suddenly, I can feel something in my heart..I was quite upset and felt guilty to my dad..I didn't meant to break his heart..the thing is, I don't know what are his wishes. Physically, I can see that he don't really care what is happening. But my assumption is totally wrong!!:( I think as people are getting older, they would become more sensitive and want to be loved and appreciated. So,for some people out there who have the same assumption as me (I know there are a lot):) try to figure out what are actually happening and try to understand the people that we love so much in our life..as we still have the chance to show it to them, just show it..don't regret if they are taken from us but we still didn't show our love to them yet..appreciate the time that we have..don't simply ignore their feeling because everyone has a HEART..not only we have to take care our own heart, but also other's..think carefully..

Ya Allah, Ya Rahim Ya Karim
Jadikanlah aku hambaMu dan umat Muhammad SAW yang beriman kepadaMu dan
berbakti kepada kedua ibubapaku.

Ya Allah, ampunkanlah dosa kedua ibubapaku
kasihilah mereka sebagaimana mereka mengasihiku ketika aku kecil
bukakanlah pintu hati mereka untuk beriman kepadaMu
aku terlalu banyak terhutang budi kepada mereka ya Allah
terlalu banyak budi mereka yang ku balas dengan menyakiti hati mereka
kasih sayang mereka kubalas dengan kata-kata menentang
Didikan dan asuhan mereka aku ambil ringan.

Aku lupa ya Allah, berkat usaha, asuhan dan didikan merekalah aku berjaya kini,
keselesaan sanggup dilupakan ketika mengandungkan aku
kesakitan yang amat sangat sanggup dilalui ketika melahirkan aku
tidur malam mereka aku ganggu
titik peluh mereka basah kering demi membesarkan aku
tidak pernah mereka mengadu letih
tidak pernah mereka mengadu sakit
lauk yang dimulut sanggup mereka luah untuk diberikan kepadaku
harta yang dikumpul sanggup dilepaskan untuk pendidikanku
namun selama ini aku lupa semua itu ya Allah
kerana mereka tidak pernah merungut kepadaku ya Allah
kerana mereka tidak pernah mengadu kepadaku ya Allah
berilah mereka kebaikan di dunia dan di akhirat ya Allah
amin ya rabbal alamin..

99 langkah menuju kesempurnaan iman

Marilah kita sama2 mengingatkan antara satu sama lain ttg perkara2 berikut..insyaAllah..:)

01. Bersyukur apabila mendapat nikmat;
02. Sabar apabila mendapat kesulitan;
03. Tawakal apabila mempunyai rencana/program;
04. Ikhlas dalam segala amal perbuatan;
05. Jangan membiarkan hati larut dalam kesedihan;
06. Jangan menyesal atas sesuatu kegagalan;
07. Jangan putus asa dalam menghadapi kesulitan;
08. Jangan usil dengan kekayaan orang;
09. Jangan hasad dan iri atas kesuksessan orang;
10. Jangan sombong kalau memperoleh kesuksessan;
11. Jangan tamak kepada harta;
12. Jangan terlalu ambitious akan sesuatu kedudukan;
13. Jangan hancur karena kezaliman;
14. Jangan goyah karena fitnah;
15. Jangan berkeinginan terlalu tinggi yang melebihi kemampuan diri;
16. Jangan campuri harta dengan harta yang haram;
17. Jangan sakiti ayah dan ibu;
18. Jangan usir orang yang meminta-minta;
19. Jangan sakiti anak yatim;
20. Jauhkan diri dari dosa-dosa yang besar;
21. Jangan membiasakan diri melakukan dosa-dosa kecil;
22. Banyak berkunjung ke rumah Allah (masjid);
23. Lakukan shalat dengan ikhlas dan khusyu;
24. Lakukan shalat fardhu di awal waktu, berjamaah di masjid;
25. Biasakan shalat malam;
26. Perbanyak dzikir dan do'a kepada Allah;
27. Lakukan puasa wajib dan puasa sunat;
28. Sayangi dan santuni fakir miskin;
29. Jangan ada rasa takut kecuali hanya kepada Allah;
30. Jangan marah berlebih-lebihan;
31. Cintailah seseorang dengan tidak berlebih-lebihan;
32. Bersatulah karena Allah dan berpisahlah karena Allah;
33. Berlatihlah konsentrasi pikiran;
34. Penuhi janji apabila telah diikrarkan dan mintalah maaf apabila karena sesuatu sebab tidak dapat dipenuhi;
35. Jangan mempunyai musuh, kecuali dengan iblis/syaitan;
36. Jangan percaya ramalan manusia;
37. Jangan terlampau takut miskin;
38. Hormatilah setiap orang;
39. Jangan terlampau takut kepada manusia;
40. Jangan sombong, takabur dan besar kepala;
41. Berlakulah adil dalam segala urusan;
42. Biasakan istighfar dan taubat kepada Allah;
44. Hiasi rumah dengan bacaan Al-Quran;
45. Perbanyak silaturrahim;
46. Tutup aurat sesuai dengan petunjuk Islam;
47. Bicaralah secukupnya;
48. Beristeri/bersuami kalau sudah siap segala-galanya;
49. Hargai waktu, disiplin waktu dan manfaatkan waktu;
50. Biasakan hidup bersih, tertib dan teratur;
51. Jauhkan diri dari penyakit-penyakit bathin;
52. Sediakan waktu untuk santai dengan keluarga;
53. Makanlah secukupnya tidak kekurangan dan tidak berlebihan;
54. Hormatilah kepada guru dan ulama;
55. Sering-sering bershalawat kepada nabi;
56. Cintai keluarga Nabi saw;
57. Jangan terlalu banyak hutang;
58. Jangan terlampau mudah berjanji;
59. Selalu ingat akan saat kematian dan sedar bahawa kehidupan dunia adalah kehidupan sementara;
60. Jauhkan diri dari perbuatan-perbuatan yang tidak bermanfaat seperti bercakap yang tidak berguna;
61. Bergaul lah dengan orang-orang soleh;
62. Sering bangun di penghujung malam, berdoa dan beristighfar;
63. Lakukan ibadah haji dan umrah apabila sudah mampu;
64. Maafkan orang lain yang berbuat salah kepada kita;
65. Jangan dendam dan jangan ada keinginan membalas kejahatan dengan kejahatan lagi;
66. Jangan membenci seseorang karena pahaman dan pendiriannya;
67. Jangan benci kepada orang yang membenci kita;
68. Berlatih untuk berterus terang dalam menentukan sesuatu pilihan;
69. Ringankan beban orang lain dan tolonglah mereka yang mendapatkan kesulitan;
70. Jangan melukai hati orang lain;
71. Jangan membiasakan berkata dusta;
72. Berlakulah adil, walaupun kita sendiri akan mendapatkan kerugian;
73. Jagalah amanah dengan penuh tanggung jawab;
74. Laksanakan segala tugas dengan penuh keikhlasan dan kesungguhan;
75. Hormati orang lain yang lebih tua dari kita
76. Jangan membuka aib orang lain;
77. Lihatlah orang yang lebih miskin daripada kita,lihat pula orang yang lebih berprestasi dari kita;
78. Ambilah pelajaran dari pengalaman orang-orang arif dan bijaksana;
79. Sediakan waktu untuk merenung apa-apa yang sudah dilakukan;
80. Jangan sedih karena miskin dan jangan sombong karena kaya;
81. Jadilah manusia yang selalu bermanfaat untuk agama,bangsa dan negara;
82. Kenali kekurangan diri dan kenali pula kelebihan orang lain;
83. Jangan membuat orang lain menderita dan sengsara;
84. Berkatalah yang baik-baik atau tidak berkata apa-apa;
85. Hargai prestasi dan pemberian orang;
86. Jangan habiskan waktu untuk sekedar hiburan dan kesenangan;
87. Akrablah dengan setiap orang, walaupun yang bersangkutan tidak menyenangkan;
88. Sediakan waktu untuk berolahraga yang sesuaidengan norma-norma agama dan kondisi diri kita;
89. Jangan berbuat sesuatu yang menyebabkan fizikal atau mental kita menjadi terganggu;
90. Ikutilah nasihat orang-orang yang arif dan bijaksana;
91. Pandai-pandailah untuk melupakan kesalahan orang dan pandai-pandailah untuk melupakan jasa kita;
92. Jangan berbuat sesuatu yang menyebabkan orang lain terganggu dan jangan berkata sesuatu yang dapat menyebabkan orang lain terhina;
93. Jangan cepat percaya kepada berita negatif yang berkaitan teman kita sebelum dipastikan kebenarannya;
94. Jangan menunda-nunda pelaksanaan tugas dan kewajiban;
95. Sambutlah huluran tangan setiap orang dengan penuh keakraban dan keramahan dan tidak berlebihan;
96. Jangan memforsir diri untuk melakukan sesuatu yang diluar kemampuan diri;
97. Waspadalah akan setiap ujian, cubaan, godaan dan tentangan. Jangan lari dari kenyataan kehidupan;
98. Yakinlah bahawa setiap kebajikan akan melahirkan kebaikan dan setiap kejahatan akan melahirkan merosakkan;
99. Jangan sukses di atas penderitaan orang dan jangan kaya dengan memiskinkan orang.

kalau kita perasan, perkataan yang di 'bold' warna hitam adalah sifat2 yg baik, warna merah sifat2 yg x baik, yg berwarna biru adalah ujian untuk kite semua..renung renungkan..semoga bermanfaat utk semua..:)

Blissfulness

How do u feel when u've got nothing to worry about at this moment? This is what my feeling is right now.. just finished my final exams..phew..feels like all the loads that I carried in my shoulder have gone!!but yeah,this is just for a while.. we never know what is going to be next..what I can do is just to wait n see..i can imagine that things will become more and more harder..only the strong ones can survive..ok,enough bout that..

Winter break is now officially started for me..break means trips for some of us..n me too!hehe..got so many plans to go at first..Fiji?? South Island?

however, for this winter break, lots of things have to be done here..so, I think i'm not going anywhere far from here..plus there will be intensive training for netball n futsal!whoa,feels like i'm a sport woman rite..haha..one of my close fren said, " wah,kau da cool la skrg ek...dulu mana ade.aku nak ajak jog kat park blakang hostel tu pon kau xnak"...haha.dulu lain,skrg lain mr S...=P time has change..time and environment do affect our livestyle..n yeah, Bersatu Games will be held in small,peace and calm Palmy this year..hurm,can't wait to go to the field or gym to do some physical exercises...huhu..been so long didn't play any sports. it's not good, i know..but what to do..time constraint..plus, have to work hard for the exams since internal marks were not so good. n now, everything was done..just leave it and tawakkal to Allah..He knows everything that we don't know..:)

The Beginning

Salam and Hi to all readers..

Since this is my 1st ever blog, I just wanna wish happy reading and please update or correct me if I've done any wrong statement. :D